Didn’t you feel like a voyeur?
This was originally posted July 2017.
“Didn’t you feel like a voyeur?” my friend asked me a couple of nights ago when I gathered with a group for a chat, glass of wine and some lovely nibbles. I had shared some of my recent India adventures.
I described visiting small remote villages in Punjab and Gujarat, going into people’s dirt floor homes taking pictures capturing every day life.
Her question was appropriate and one that has plagued me a bit on my travels. As I thought about her query, these experiences came to mind.
INDIA
On that recent trip in India, I never felt like I was intruding. First, our Tour Leaders on the Jim Cline Photo Tour paved the way asking if we could take photos, sometimes with sign language. Some times this meant taking one photo and then showing what the person looked like on the screen on the back of the camera. Judging by the expressions of delight, this was often a new experience. Soon the comfort level would rise and we’d gather around, putting view finders to the eyes and clicking away.
If someone indicated a “no” we never pushed or forced. Frankly, we had so many photo opportunities that we simply moved on, understanding and enjoying the experience.
We were a total novelty to the people in these villages. Some of the children had never seen people with light skin. You can imagine how strange we looked with our pale faces, western clothes and cameras hanging around our necks or on belts at the hips.
Yes, we asked permission to take photos. I quickly learned how to tap my camera and smile with a question on my face? Then if I got a yes or a head bobble (people who have been to India will understand what I mean by that) in response, I’d snap a shot and then show my new friend the image on the screen. This often evoked smiles and giggles and remarks among the crowd now gathering. It was clear they thought it was fun.
The big surprise was that cell phones would appear and we’d be asked to pose and smile for Selfie Time. This happened frequently. Some times the paparazzi moment in the crowds at the festivals made it hard to make our pictures as we became the center of attention.
We all agreed though that being gracious about having Selfies taken with complete strangers was fair and the right thing to do. I think it is a hoot that my image is now on a lot of phones all over northern India.
North Vietnam
In North Vietnam five years ago, I also felt a bit uncomfortable at first when we visited Sapa, a remote town near the Chinese border.
On that trip I wasn’t with a tour group, instead I was traveling with my husband and a guide.
We traveled out from Sapa to remote hamlets of the Hmong tribes. Wandering through little gatherings of mud huts, sometimes on stilts, our guide would ask if we could see their homes explaining that we were interested in their way of life.
Once this resulted in being served tea. We enjoyed demonstrations of their weaving skills. I’ll always remember an elderly lady showing me the ancient practice of teeth blackening. When appropriate we left a few coins behind or purchased textiles if so offered.
Comments
10 CommentsJulei
Jul 17, 2017Your photos are just amazing Susan! Also a great message!
JoAnne
Jul 18, 2017I’ve always wondered about this very thing and loved how you handled this issue in your travels. Great post. I also enjoyed the gorgeous, life-filled pictures, some of which I recognized from our Bhutan trip!
Susan J. Smith
Jul 18, 2017Thank you, JoAnne, It is an interesting question. Thank you for your nice comments. and yes, Bhutan was a wonderfully photogenic experience
Marie Preston
Jul 18, 2017What beautiful, thoughtful adventures in photography and culture you have!
Susan J. Smith
Jul 18, 2017Thank you for your comment, Marie.
Kathy
Jul 19, 2017I have wondered how you have managed to get such beautiful pictures of the natives showing their faces, outfits and surroundings in such wonderful detail. Great explanation!
Susan J. Smith
Jul 20, 2017Thanks Kathy, I appreciate your comment.
Richard Edelen
Jul 26, 2017Hello Susan , Just read this one and really enjoyed the story , you did a great job with the photos.
Susan J. Smith
Jul 26, 2017Thanks, Rick. I really appreciate your comment.
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